ACTIVE AIR FORCE.

I understand all the benefits and shit, but i dont want to live that lifestyle. If i was single then maybe yeah i would go for it, but im not. I have my significant other to think about other than myself, what will happen when we start a family? I cant leave him alone with our kids. I cant imagine being away from my kids for long periods of time. I dont want to miss out on my kids lives. I am the type that wants that traditional home life, to have a husband and raise our kids together. I know that being in the active duty will give us lots of money and lots of really amazing benefits, but look at the huge sacrifice. I am not willing to give up my family for it, i just cant. I have separation anxiety, i just cant handle it. I am looking more into the reserves, i just need something to help out financially, i dont want to depend on military to get me through life. My parents just keep forcing me to go active because of the many benefits it has, and i get it but they need to understand they can share their opinions but in the end it is my choice. And ive decided.